4 BEDROOMS, 4 EN-SUITES, BEAUTIFUL KITCHEN, LAUNDRY , SCULLERY, GYM, STUDY, OPEN PLAN LIVING ROOM, DINING ROOM AND KITCHEN, SEPARATE LOUNGE, SERVANTS QUARTERS, POOL, OUTSIDE BRAAI, KOI POND, SPRINKLER SYSTEM, ELECTRIC FENCING, 4 GARAGES, FLATLET, OUTSIDE TOILET, GENERATOR

Nowadays it is far more difficult to meet the right partner. People contact Soulmatch for many reasons. Some lead very busy lives at work and at home and they don't have enough time to search for a suitable partner. Others have lost their partner through illness or accident and now are ready to move on. Some people may have just come out of yet another long term relationship and feel exhausted at the thought of having to start all over again.

We are nearing the Christmas holiday and although it is a time that many look forward to in order to rest, have more time available and see loved ones, it can also be an emotionally difficult time.  More time spent with the people closest to you and with family (and in-laws) can also confront you with the difficulties of unresolved issues and dynamics in these relationships.  This is also a time when losses can be particularly painfully felt, even if they were suffered many years ago.

It seems like just the other day that I was planning the first letter for 2009, and now I am writing the last one for the year.

For many of us it’s Christmas, the time of giving, yet again. For many more it is the time of receiving.

Retailers all over the world, most of whom have no connection to Christmas, rubbing their hands in glee; and of course the vast majority of outstretched hands who have not the slightest interest in giving, totally preoccupied with working out how to milk the sprit of Christmas with their own particular brand of ‘we are entitled to receive’.